Shibari instructions

shibari

Introduction

This resources aims to provide fundamental information regarding rope bottom safety, to enable
tops and bottoms to make informed choices and educate those starting out on their rope journey.

One of the most important points to remember about rope bondage, besides
having fun, is there is always a risk. There are risks attached to every
bondage scenario, even with the best bondage riggers and models.


We cannot emphasise enough how important it is to really consider and understand these risks. If
you do not know what the risks might be this is an indication that you need more information.
It’s possible to minimise risk by being risk and self-aware, informed and
working with a rigger who has good skill and is risk aware. You will significantly
reduce the risks of bondage but you will never eliminate them entirely.
This guide is a set of general recommendations. It is by no means suited
to every rope bondage situation and every bottom or body type. You may
have preferences that contradict the advice given in this guide.
It is important to remember that every person’s body is different, what is correct
for you, might be dangerous for another person. As you gain experience and
self-awareness in bondage you may find that your personal preferences and
what your body needs differs from the guidelines in this resource.

It is the rigger’s responsibility to ensure they are doing the right thing for you. It is your
responsibility to communicate with the rigger. You both have responsibility to one another.
Communication is vital to reduce the risk involved with rope bondage. It is your
responsibility to communicate and give feedback before, during and after bondage.
When you are new to bondage you may not know your feelings or reactions well.

Communicate with your rigger and err on the side of caution when you are unsure. If you
communicate openly and freely your rigger should be able to trust that you are a reliable bottom.
If on the other hand you conceal things when you are unsure or suspect
danger signs it can result in numerous disastrous outcomes, as well as
breaking your riggers trust in you as a responsible bottom.

To break rules, you must first understand them. Sometimes skilled, experienced and
risk aware riggers can go beyond these guidelines with your risk aware consent.
This can be done with caution, keeping risks, safety and possible consequences
in mind. However, a rigger must know the rules that they are breaking and why
these rules are there to begin with, before they decide to break them.

Don’t be afraid to question your rigger at any point.
Remember, during play your safety comes before any D/s protocol.
Remember that during a photo shoot or performance your
safety comes before doing your job as a model.



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